52 Ancestors: #7 Johann Nickel MEY ~ Bye-Bye, Love

Léon Perrault [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
Léon Perrault [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

I’d like to imagine that there are some truly romantic love stories out there among my ancestors, especially since today is Valentine’s Day, but there really are none that I am privy to.  Not that we observe this particular “holiday” here in this house… It was kind of fun when my kids were very young, or when I was much younger than I am now, but these days it is mostly a non-event. We are spending this windy, snowy, wintery day by laying around and reading and then ordering in pizza for dinner. That’s pretty much a perfect day! Perhaps I’ll bake some heart-shaped cookies later to warm up the kitchen. Anyway, as usual, I digress.

After looking over those distant relatives with surnames of Love, and Valentine, and Hart in an attempt to find something that would resonate with Amy Johnson Crow’s suggested optional theme for the 52 Ancestors 52 Weeks Challenge for this week and not feeling inspired, I started searching for a couple who might have been married around the 14th of February. I found that I have exactly one.

Admittedly, I have not spent as much time on my dad’s ancestral line because gathering the information has been such a chore. My dad’s father died when he was three years old and no one really knows too much about that family and then, add to that, the fact that my dad’s father was born with the surname Otto, but for some unknown reason started going by the name of Schrader as a young adult. I know! Like I said, it’s mostly a chore. No one seems to have much information on my grandmother’s family either, so it has been like starting with a blank piece of paper…literally.

There is an interesting branch of my father’s line, though, the Mey family (and if I could figure out how to type an umlaut on this laptop, I would do so). Johann Nickel Mey is my paternal 7th great grandfather. He was born on 29 May 1673 in Alsenz, Rheinland-Pfalz, Germany to Johannes Mey, a judge from Callbach and Margaretha Lauers from Niedermoschel. Johann Nickel was a shoemaker and married Anna Catharina Beyer on 18 April 1699 in Niederhausen. Two sons were born to the couple over the next few years and it appears that Anna Catharina died in childbirth in 1707 at the young age of 26. Both sons died in infancy.

Evangelische Kirche Niederhausen By Nahefoto 19:03, 30 December 2007 (UTC) (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
Evangelische Kirche Niederhausen By Nahefoto 19:03, 30 December 2007 (UTC) (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

On 14 February 1708, Johann Nickel married again. This time to Maria Catharina Graeff, the daughter of Anna Margaretha and Johann Nicolas Graeff in the Niederhausen Reformed Church. According to essays written by Fred T. Mays on the mayhouse.org website, this day was also a special day in the village because St. Valentine was the protecting saint of the congregation. This marriage then, is my romantic story for today.

Johann Nickel and Maria Catharina would go on to have seven sons and three daughters and although two of the boys would die as infants, the rest all grew to adulthood and married. During this time, Johann Nickel became a judge as well. On 21 February 1743, Johann Nickel succumbed to an illness and passed away. At some point after his death, the family began making plans to move to America.

The years following The Thirty Years War in Germany were followed by many years of religious persecutions and other upheavals. This resulted in more than thirty thousand immigrants flooding into Pennsylvania just prior to the Revolutionary War during the years 1727 through 1776. During the summer of 1748, Maria Catharina said goodbye to her husband, long buried, and two of her children who were staying behind, to travel up the Rhine to Rotterdam on the North Sea. There she boarded the ship Edinburgh along with three sons and two daughters, bound for a new life.  They arrived at the port of Philadelphia on 05 September 1748.

Palatines who were living in Pennsylvania said that they had left the Palatinate because of religious reasons and financial difficulties. Because they were allowed a greater liberty of conscience in Pennsylvania, they left the Rhine valley for the Conestoga Country. And it was here in Conestoga Township in Lancaster County where Maria Catherina died in 1751 barely three years after she had left her homeland. It was also here where one of her sons, Johann Leonhardt May (my 6th great grandfather), became a wagoner – Conestoga style. But then, that’s another story…


Lineage Notecard

Name: Johann Nickel Mey

Parents: Johannes Mey and Margaretha Lauers

Spouse: Anna Catharina Beyer, Maria Catharina Graeff


Relationship to Hollie: 7th great grandfather

  1. Johann Nickel Mey
  2. Johann Leonhardt May
  3. Johann Daniel May
  4. Daniel May
  5. John G. May
  6. Joseph C. May
  7. Lydia Pearl May
  8. Lloyd Albert Schrader
  9. George Orren Schrader
  10. Hollie Ann Schrader


“Deutschland, Heiraten, 1558-1929,” index, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.1.1/NZ6K-13L : accessed 14 February 2015), Johannes Mey in entry for Johann Nickel Mey and Anna Catharina Beyer, 18 Apr 1699; citing Alsenz, Bayern, Germany; FHL microfilm 193,751.

Egge, Marion F. Pennsylvania German Roots across the Ocean. Philadelphia, PA: Genealogical Society of Pennsylvania, 2000. Print.

Eshleman, H. Frank. Historic Background and Annals of the Swiss and German Pioneer Settlers of Southeastern Pennsylvania, and of Their Remote Ancestors, from the Middle of the Dark Ages, down to the Time of the Revolutionary War; an Authentic History .. Baltimore: Genealogical Pub., 1969. Print.

Jordan, John W. N.p.: n.p., n.d. Print.

Rupp, I. Daniel. General Remarks on the Origin of Surnames Interpretation of Baptismal Names, Which Occur in the Collection of Thirty Thousand Names of German, Swiss and Other Immigrants ; to Which Are Added Other Baptismal Names, Both of Males and Females. Harrisburg: T.F. Scheffer, Printer, 1856. Print.

STRASSBURGER, RALPH BEAVER. Pennsylvania German Pioneers: A Publication of the Original Lists of Arrivals in the Port of Philadelphia from 1727 to 1808. Edited by William John Hinke. Norristown [PA]: Pennsylvania German Society, 1934. 3 vols. Vols. 1 and 3 reprinted by Genealogical Publishing Co., Baltimore, 1964. Repr. 1983. Vol. 1. 1727-1775. 776p.

Yoder, Don, editor.  Pennsylvania German Immigrants 1709-1786, Lists Consolidated from Yearbooks of The Pennsylvania German Folklore Society, Genealogical Publishing Co., Baltimore, 1980





12 Replies to “52 Ancestors: #7 Johann Nickel MEY ~ Bye-Bye, Love”

  1. I think you did a wonderful job with the “love” theme. I enjoy your writing style. I messed up and did my “love” story last week telling about a sweet reunion after the husband had been a prisoner of war.


    1. Thanks, Dana. I wouldn’t worry too much about posting on a “wrong” week. I’m glad that themes are suggested so that I can get a prompt to keep me on task, but I’m not going to stress too much about it. I have so may irons in the fire right now that I need lots of lists and prompts or I’d just be scattering myself everywhere and not getting anything of value done. I must have missed your story somehow, Dana, but I’ll be sure to check it out tomorrow.


    1. Cathy, great article! Thank you! I have been to the May House site, but not often in the last 10 or 12 years. I might just go explore that in more depth today. 🙂
      BTW – I always assumed that the “y” was being treated as a vowel, as in the “sometimes y” rule.

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  2. Hi Holly:
    Read your note in Rootsweb, and followed your link. I see you know your May family as we have it’s DNA now is easy to identify. I notice you have Schrader, it is just a coincidence of course, but I have inlaw cousins in Germany by that name in the area of Saxon-Anhalt….we have a small family tree from my wife side of the family. Enrique Braxton May 4

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    1. Hi Enrique,
      Thank you so much for reading my post! I still have a lot to learn about the May family, but feel that I’m heading in the right direction due to the impeccable research of others. Right now, the problem that I’m working on is trying to obtain vital records from between the Revolutionary and Civil Wars. I have had an autosomal DNA testing done and have a few matches, but haven’t had any free time to start a dialogue with them yet. My Schrader side I have virtually no information on and have serious doubts about that heritage and am thinking that, perhaps, the correct surname should be Otto.
      Best Regards,
      ~ Hollie


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